I am part of the way back across the world, visiting my
dearest sister and her family for a bit before returning to the states. I think
possibly one of the most depressing experiences is seeing a new flight posted
directly to your destination, but you just look down at the tickets in your
hand for 3 more connecting flights, 2 layovers, and 22 more hours. I just
thought of the hundreds and hundreds of dollars more it would be and how many
less naps I could take, and carried on bravely. At the first airport I confused
the security people because all of my liquids in my carryon were in a Ziploc bag.
They ran it through twice and asked if they could look in my bag because all
the liquids were in one area and it was strange. They looked in my bag, but
ignored my 1 liter Nalgene full of water. My last experience in that town is 7
little boys running after me as I was walking across to board the plane,
yelling “White person! Hey! You’re a white person! White person, white person!”
The next airport, I was still a rarity… but finally by the third airport I was
no longer the only pasty ghost, although I was still getting sideways looks as
I exited the plane. The fourth airport was so wonderfully full of Europeans and
I blended in. Blending in is my favorite. As some of you may be aware, Europe
is significantly colder than Africa. As the plane finished taxiing, everyone started
pulling parkas from the overhead bins and suiting up. I had a whole row to
myself that flight, and I am having difficulty even finding the words to
describe the emotional high I experienced, just know that I was blissfully
happy. I had slept the whole way, so I was a bit drowsy as I exited the
aircraft, but the frigid air rapidly reversed that. One more short hop and I
was finally with my loving sister, brother-in-law, and the adorable nephew. I’m
so happy here, I spent my early teenage years here and feel quite comfortable
here.
We drove back from the airport… I’m glad I have this week of
being a passenger on the right side of the road before I have to drive back in
the States. Because I definitely startled a few times cause I thought we were driving
on the wrong side and were about to die. Weird contrast to go from red dirt roads,
palm trees, people in bright African prints, to green fields, windmills,
canals, and people in black winter coats. I love both.
We went to the grocery store earlier. The meat is all clean
and cut up and in packages, not covered in flies or reeking. I tried to
restrain myself and not get too much, but it’s hard when you’re surrounded by delicious
nostalgic foods from your past. And cheese. It was so exciting because I remembered
the language… do you know how amazing it is to understand everything being said
around you instead of only every 15th word?
The contrasts between Africa and Europe are so very
striking. I love them both, I do.
Colorful, hot, loud, dusty, crowded market vs. tiled,
organized, cool, clean grocery store.
Red clay huts with naked kids playing in the dirt vs. cobblestone
streets with rows of beautiful old, skinny houses.
Scorching sun vs. cold rain and gray skies.
Large compound and big house vs. 3rd story 1
bedroom apartment.
Unclean water and power outages vs. tap water I can brush my
teeth with (!!!) and reliable internet.
When I arrive back in the States, it will be my 3rd
culture in 2 months. Please be aware my head will be all kinds of messed up and
I will be overwhelmed and that I will need extra grace.
I have a few half-written posts I’m trying to
finish up and get posted, so everything will be a disjointed, but I wanted to
let you know where I was in my journey.
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